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Susie’s Strange Malady Was Affecting Her Life

Wednesday, May 5th, 2010

Susie’s problem was out of control. She was too short. Her neighbor Tara was just the right height. Susie could not compete in any basketball game with friends and neighbors. Tara was a three point wonder. Susie was plagued by her next door neighbor envy.

Susie’s grass was filled with bare patches. It had weeds too. Her husband never took care of it cause he spent all his spare time cutting wood with his new echo chainsaw. All the trees at the lot line looked fantastic. The grass looked second rate.

Tara’s husband cut the grass every weekend. He trimmed it and edged it. It looked fantastic. After he cut it, he watered it and fertilized it. Susie’s husband only cut theirs when it grew so high he was afraid they’d be fined.

Susie needed groceries again. She wondered what Tara ate, she was thin but not too thin. Susie carried a few extra pounds. She exercised but it seemed it didn’t help much. Did Tara exercise enough? She supposed she did.

Susie was so happy the day she and her husband bought a twin sleigh bed for their daughter. It was a soft white in French Provincial style and perfect for a little girls room. She called Tara to come over and see it. Tara complimented the bed highly and then they had coffee together. Of course, Susie thought Tara’s brand of coffee was better, but oh well at least she now had a sleigh bed for her daughter.

The next time Tara came over for coffee, her two daughters were with her. The three girls had fun playing with dolls and playing video games. Susie was so happy to know that Tara’s girls shared a video game system while her little daughter had one for just her. The kids were just happy to play and didn’t think about toy envy.

After Tara and her little girls went home, she sat and played with her daughter for awhile. Her daughter informed her that they had liked her sleigh bed a lot. She went on to tell Susie that they each had sleigh bed in their own bedrooms. Susie felt that old next door neighbor envy rising up in her throat again. At least Tara didn’t brag about her possessions she thought to herself.

Right after breakfast the next morning, she hustled her daughter off to the mall. They went straight to the furniture store. The child wondered why. She said she liked the sleigh bed she had and didn’t want a new one. Susie responded in a crabby way that they would put it in their spare bedroom. It’s just in case someone stays overnight she said. There, now she also had two sleigh beds in her home.

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A Young Gentleman Needs Counseling For His Intense Depression, Relationship Problems, and For His Alcoholism and Drug Dependency

Sunday, April 25th, 2010

Roughly ten months ago I had lunch with a forty-year-old male named Alexander who suffers from intense depression, has relationship difficulties, and who is alcohol and drug dependent. As articulated by Alexander, it is his drug and alcohol dependency and his extreme depression that had the most to do with his unceasing relationship problems.

I remember hearing that a history of mental health concerns, substance abuse, and excessive and unhealthy drinking quite often take place in the same family. Additionally, I have read that in such situations, an individual needs to get counseling for both medical situations and that dependency and mental health issues tend to take place in the same individual.

As explained by Alexander, he is so overcome by his relationship issues and by both of his medical issues that he essentially has little or no driving force to achieve much of anything. What is particularly sad about this is that earlier in his life, Alexander managed to finish one semester of grad school in travel and tourism.

Alexander’s circumstance makes me wonder if he is an illustration of an individual who can look within and perceive his drug abuse and alcohol drinking problems and do something constructive about these problems or if he is an individual who has to hit the bottom of the barrel before he gets drug and alcohol dependency treatment that leads to long lasting sobriety.

The Need For a Rehabilitation Regimen He Can Believe In and a Doctor He Can Trust

If it would be beneficial I would assume that I could suggest quite a few websites that could possibly help him locate info about drug abuse symptoms, the stages of alcoholism, substance abuse information, and relationship difficulties. From my vantage point, nonetheless, Alexander needs to find a rehab program he can believe in and follow over the long haul and find a physician he can trust.

I could be mistaken but it seems logical to conclude that Alexander more likely than not needs to look honestly at his life regarding his drug addiction signs and alcoholic symptoms and admit the fact that he cannot use drugs or even drink responsibly if he wants to get sober, remain sober, and start on the route to long-lasting recovery.

It may be asked how therapy would help his alcohol and drug addiction. For starters, there are more than a few recently discovered doctor-prescribed drugs that can help Alexander avoid a drug and an alcohol drug relapse, help him through the drug and alcohol detox process, and help him through his withdrawal symptoms.

Second, Alexander would learn to acknowledge the fact that there is entirely nothing productive about substance abuse and abusive and careless drinking and that messing around with one or both circumstances is the route to financial difficulties, poor work and school performance, deteriorating health, legal problems, a premature death, and shattered relationships.

Third, treatment for his depression and for his relationship issues might help him cope with these psychological difficulties more successfully and possibly create less of a need for him to involve himself in addictive behavior.

The Importance of Recovery Groups Such as Narcotics Anonymous and Alcoholics Anonymous

There are possibly numerous family members, friends, and other people who would desire to help Alexander with his drug abuse and his harmful drinking. He more likely than not would experience greater sympathy from a recovery group such as Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous, however, instead of getting advice from individuals who do not drink or who have never used drugs.

When People Do Things They Like and About Which They Are Passionate

There’s a school of thought that asserts that individuals who accomplish things they like and something about which they are passionate arrive at a great place in life. Stated more clearly, when people do what they enjoy, they hardly ever experience boredom or an uneventful life. If they involve themselves in something that is worthwhile, moreover, they become more complete and experience more satisfaction and joy in life and in their relationships.

When this is examined more closely it becomes obvious that this positive state of mind is worlds apart from a life that is centered in drug and alcohol dependency because such a lifestyle removes the happiness and joy that life offers.

Because Alexander lacks the determination to carry out much of anything in his life, it is apparent that he urgently needs a little hope for a more fulfilling life. And the sad thing is that hope is virtually everywhere around Alexander if he could only get to the point in life to get the counseling he requires for his extreme depression and drug addiction and alcoholism and stay with his treatment program.

Better Relationships, A Wonderful Life, Self Esteem, and Beneficial Change Are a Reality

Alexander is simply too young to be beaten in life. He doesn’t realize this at the moment but if he can learn how to stay away from drugs and alcohol through alcohol and drug rehab and get the treatment he needs for his intense depression, he can reorient his life and start living with self-respect, passion, and direction.

More solid relationships, constructive change, self esteem, and a wonderful life are certainly a reality for Alexander if only he could become motivated to seek the professional treatment he requires, follow through with his therapy regimen, live his life in an alcohol and drug-free and healthy way, and learn how to develop a more positive attitude about life.

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What I Learned About Alcohol and Drug Addiction in High School, the Inspiration and Motivation For My Augmented Self Worth and Self Esteem, and My Dating Relationships

Sunday, April 25th, 2010

When I was in the tenth grade in high school, I took a substance abuse class. At that time period, I did not comprehend that alcohol abuse actually was a sub category of drug abuse. While taking this class and learning more about drug and alcohol abuse and above all about alcohol side effects, I read a lot about Alcoholic Anonymous, their meetings, how their programs have twelve steps, and how successful the Alcoholics Anonymous recovery program has been for people all through the world. I also learned quite a bit about alcohol rehab and the various alcohol rehab clinics that are usually available to people who engage in excessive drinking.

Detrimental Effects That are Linked to Alcohol Dependency and Alcohol Abuse

Some of the harmful results linked to alcoholism and alcohol abuse that I learned about in this class definitely terrified me. The ruined lives and numerous serious issues experienced by most alcohol dependent individuals made me feel like I never wanted to drink alcohol when I became old enough. In a word, I did not want to face the disaster and destruction that alcohol dependent individuals almost always experience.

Let this sink in for a moment. What fifteen-year-old teenager wants to face premature death due to his or her drinking behavior? What teenager wants to become so out-of-control regarding his or her drinking that consuming alcohol becomes the object of one’s life? What adolescent wants to go to one of the local alcoholic rehabilitation centers to deal with alcohol-related problems before he or she becomes twenty-one?

What teenager wants to go through alcohol withdrawals when he or she tries to quit drinking? Why would an individual engage in drinking to such an extent that it would cause difficulties in every area of his or her life? Drinking later in life after a person has a career, a family, and develops personal responsibilities makes sense. But why would a young person want to sacrifice his or her education, employment, finances, and relationships for a life that centers on irresponsible drinking?

These issues were so important that I discussed some of them in class during the school year. What was downright amazing to me was the number of students who essentially didn’t care about the detrimental consequences of irresponsible drinking that I discussed. It was almost as if they couldn’t be troubled with the facts and how these results can demolish their lives. For the first time in my life I started to understand something that my grandfather used to tell me all through my teen and pre-teen years: you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.

It’s Beneficial, Important, and Liberating to Keep Yourself From the Unhealthy and Debilitating End Results of Drug and Alcohol Abuse

And even at my young age, I also started to comprehend how beneficial, liberating, and important it is in life to keep yourself from the debilitating and unhealthy outcomes of drug and alcohol abuse. And understanding this not only gave me the motivation and inspiration to further increase my self esteem and self worth, but it also helped shape the dating relationships I had in school.

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A Young Female Honestly Tries to Stop Drinking, Suffers From Alcohol Withdrawal Symptoms, Uncovers the Fact That She is an Alcohol Dependent Individual, Comes to a Decision to Get Alcohol Therapy, and Augments the Commitment in Her Dating Relationship

Saturday, April 24th, 2010

Jennifer is a thirty-three-year-old payroll accountant who has been consuming alcohol quite heavily since her boyfriend and she decided to break off their relationship. In actual fact, for the past eleven months she has been drinking nearly a bottle of wine every night, and on the weekends she also has been drinking several cans of beer all through the day. In short, Jennifer has been drinking so excessively that it’s a miracle that she hasn’t suffered from alcohol poisoning.

After feeling dispirited because she was starting to let her health go downhill, Jennifer at long last told herself that she’s had enough, that it’s time to quit the self pity routine, that it’s time to quit the abusive and hazardous drinking, and time to get going with her life. So the next Saturday morning at 9:00 AM, she determined that she would stop drinking cold turkey.

When She Attempted to Quit Drinking She Felt Dreadful, She Had Absolutely No Appetite, Her Head Was Aching, She Started to Sweat Extensively, She Was Extremely Moody and Restless, and She Vomited a Number of Times

When Jennifer quit drinking, she figured that she would most likely be tempted to have a couple of drinks, but she never assumed that she would feel so ill. More accurately, roughly an hour-and-a-half after she stopped drinking, she had utterly no appetite, she vomited several times, her head was throbbing, she started to perspire extensively, and she was extremely stressed out and moody.

When she called her best friend and informed her that she had stopped drinking and that after a couple of hours she all of a sudden began having flu-like symptoms, Rita, her best buddy, told Jennifer to call her healthcare practitioner and clearly explain what she was experiencing.

She Admits to Her Healthcare Professional That She Has Been Drinking In an Excessive and Irresponsible Manner, That She Just Tried to Quit Drinking, and That She is Suffering Through Terribly Unpleasant Flu-Like Symptoms

So Jennifer called her family doctor, informed him that she has been drinking excessively for quite a few months and that when she made an effort to abruptly quit drinking earlier in the day, within a few hours she felt as if she had the most horrible flu-like symptoms that she had ever experienced.

Her healthcare professional informed her that she may be experiencing symptoms of alcohol withdrawal and that she should have a friend or family member take her to the emergency room as soon as possible.

As soon as Jennifer got off the phone, she got a family member to drive her to the emergency room. Interestingly, all the way to the hospital, as sick as Jennifer felt, the only thing she could think about was whether or not she might be an alcoholic.

It seems that her healthcare professional had called ahead and told the emergency room staff to expect Jennifer because when she got to the hospital, she was met by two nurses who promptly asked her to lie down on the portable bed they had with them. After getting transferred to the emergency room and undergoing two or three basic tests, it was confirmed that Jennifer was in point of fact going through alcohol withdrawal symptoms and was in need of alcohol detoxification.

A healthcare practitioner administered some drugs to address her flu-like symptoms and also gave her some meds to help get rid of the alcohol that was still in her circulation system.

An Alcoholism and Alcohol Abuse Healthcare Professional Goes Over the Fact That She is Addicted to Alcohol and Then Goes Over What Alcohol Withdrawal Symptoms and Alcohol Dependency Stages Are

After a few hours, Jennifer was taken from the emergency room and transported to the recovery room. After she was in recovery for just about an hour-and-a-half, Doctor Jeffries, an alcohol abuse and alcoholism specialist, came to talk to her. He took quite a bit of time and explained in plain words that Jennifer had gone through alcohol withdrawal symptoms when she stopped drinking because she had become an alcoholic.

He then elucidated the fact that with continuous and heavy drinking, the individual’s brain slowly but surely gets acclimated to the alcohol so that it can execute tasks and operations in a “routine” way. When the person then abruptly abstains from consuming alcohol, it can be noted, the brain reacts by giving rise to alcohol withdrawal symptoms. What is more, her physician also clearly explained the different alcoholism stages that a person who is alcohol dependent regularly experiences as the disease gradually gets worse.

It is Established that Jennifer is in the Earliest Stage of Alcohol Dependency and She Gets a Good Prognosis For a Complete Recovery if She Gets the Alcohol Treatment She Requires

Fortunately for Jennifer, it was confirmed that she was in the first stage of alcohol addiction and, as a result, she got a good diagnosis for a full recovery if she receives the alcohol addiction rehabilitation she needs.

Jennifer told the doctor that she will do whatever it takes to get sober and to re-establish her life. She also articulated that she has a first-rate hospitalization insurance policy that will probably pay for most of the treatment costs. It was obvious that Jennifer was very happy with her positive prognosis and felt free from worry knowing that she will be able to get the alcohol dependency rehabilitation she requires so that she can begin the road to recovery. After Jennifer talked to her doctor, one thing was unmistakable: addressing her illness and wanting to pursue the healthiest route was good for her self esteem but it also augmented the commitment in her dating relationship.

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A Young Woman’s Hazardous and Irresponsible Drinking Results In a DUI, Mental Health Concerns, Depression, Time Incarcerated in Jail, and Dating and Relationship Problems

Friday, April 23rd, 2010

Jesse had an exceptionally difficult time keeping a job. In fact, because of her lethargy and lack of incentive, she was unemployed far more often than she was in a state of employment. And when she did find a job, she had an exceptionally difficult time getting to work on time, she typically got less than optimal performance evaluations, and she called off sick so frequently that she almost always got fired a week or two after she began working. To no one’s wonder, one of the consequences of Jesse’s disgraceful employment track record was the fact that she was virtually penniless on a day-to-day basis.

Despite Jesse’s crummy employment history and financial misbehavior, conversely, by hook or by crook she made it a point to drink irresponsibly from day-to-day. Not surprisingly, her abusive and excessive drinking also resulted in a host of dating and relationship difficulties through the years.

Based on her hazardous drinking, it came as no big surprise when Jesse got arrested for a fifth DWI. When she went to court, the magistrate told Jesse that her alcohol-related actions was awful and, consequently, he was going to sentence Jesse to serve twelve months locked up in jail.

Time While Locked Up In Jail To Think About The Damaging Consequences of Irresponsible and Hazardous Drinking

During her time in the county jail, Jesse was expected to learn more about alcohol facts, about the unhealthy consequences of excessive and irresponsible drinking, and she was required to get alcohol therapy. The magistrate underlined the fact that unless Jesse receives professional alcohol treatment and discovers how to live a life of sobriety, she will more likely than not be spending a lot more time in the city jail.

Jesse said that she comprehended what the magistrate was pronouncing but she still claimed that incarceration was not the most effective punishment. The judge saw things differently and claimed that it was his professional responsibility to keep individuals off the streets who drink and drive and who get arrested for multiple DUIs. To give credibility to this statement, the judge outlined some honored, thoroughly researched alcohol statistics that emphasized some of the distressing results that are related to thoughtless drinking.

Even though Jesse knew that she drank in a hazardous and excessive manner, she never felt that she was an individual who was dependent on alcohol. So it was a real shocker when Jesse began experiencing symptoms of alcohol withdrawal roughly two hours after getting locked up in the municipal jail.

To deal with her alcohol withdrawal symptoms in a harm free manner, Jesse was taken to a rehab center for alcohol detoxification and then returned to jail. While in jail Jesse received a mental health exam for her depression and got alcohol treatment but because she received this therapy as something that was imposed upon her, she neglected to take ownership of her excessive drinking.

When her time in the local jail was completed, the magistrate without wavering told Jesse that she would be under stringent surveillance and would be required to take random blood alcohol tests.

Jessie’s Thoughtless Drinking Prevents Her From Living in an Accountable and Effective Manner

After hearing how Jesse neglected to take ownership of her drinking situation and how she grudgingly followed the counseling protocol while in the county jail, the magistrate knew that it was just a matter of time before he would be seeing Jesse once again in court about her excessive drinking behavior. As the magistrate thought about Jesse’s situation, he couldn’t help but think about how some people never use their brain and discover how to live in an accountable and productive manner.

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A Sunday School Teacher Gets Arrested for Drunk Driving, Gets Motivated and Inspired To Receive Alcohol Treatment for Her Excessive and Irresponsible Drinking, Boosts Her Self-Confidence, and Establishes More Commitment and Love in Her Dating Relationships

Thursday, April 22nd, 2010

For the past ten years Jenny has been a registered nurse at a community hospital. In addition she has also been teaching Sunday school at the local Lutheran Church. Despite the fact that she lived in a small rural community where it seemed like everybody knew everyone’s business, almost nothing was known about Jenny. It almost goes without saying that virtually everyone in town knew that she had worked more than a few years as a nurse practitioner and that she taught Sunday school for as long as she was a resident of their small community. Other than that, however, it almost seemed as if Jenny didn’t exist.

You can envisage the fervor that happened when it was discovered that one Sunday morning Jenny had lost consciousness due to excessive drinking. In truth, the article in the hometown daily paper articulated that Jenny not only became unconscious, but that she also was arrested for driving while inebriated because her blood alcohol concentration was significantly higher than the legal limit for drunk driving. This is obviously one of the alcohol effects on the body that no Sunday school teacher wants to have discussed by the whole community. But this is specifically what happened, much to the regret of Jenny.

Jenny Gets Quite Dismayed About Her Arrest for Drunk Driving

It almost goes without saying that Jenny was extremely displeased about her DWI. Not only should she have known better about drinking and driving because of her nursing status, but she also should have held herself accountable to a higher yardstick because of the basic fact that she taught Sunday school.

After her arrest for drunk driving, Jenny thought about moving out of town so that she would not have to feel disturbed about her arrest and also so she wouldn’t have to go over her actions for the hundred thousandth time to the people in town. After speaking with her pastor, nevertheless, she made up her mind that she would get alcohol rehab at a local rehabilitation facility. She did this for two straightforward reasons. First, it was relatively easy for her to drive to a local rehab hospital. And second, she sincerely wanted the word to get distributed among all the individuals in the community that she was honestly dealing with her hazardous and excessive drinking.

Jenny Goes Through Detox and Gets a Thorough Physical Examination

After Jenny went through alcohol detoxification, she got completely examined by a healthcare practitioner at the drug and alcohol rehab hospital. She then underwent several laboratory procedures where it was verified that she was not dependent on alcohol but instead was engaging in abusive and irresponsible drinking. In a word Jenny was engaging in long term alcohol abuse.

Jenny was given the option of getting alcohol treatment as a residential patient or getting admitted as an outpatient. Jenny, nonetheless, thought that she could still work as a nurse practitioner and retain her Sunday school teaching job if she were to be registered as an out-patient and this is specifically what she did.

According to her counseling action plan, Jenny went to four rehab sessions every week, she learned more than she ever wanted to know about alcohol info, she worked on her out-of-class “duties,” she received counseling for her depression and other mental health issues, and she learned how to involve herself doing things in life without having a need for alcohol.

After twelve weeks, Jenny felt like her abusive and hazardous drinking was under control and so she got released from the drug and alcohol treatment facility under the provision that she would return for follow up treatment once every two months for the next eight months. Jenny signed an agreement form and followed through on her “promise.”

Jenny Makes up Her Mind to Refrain From All Drinking Situations, Discovers That Her Self Image Becomes More Pronounced, and Develops More Commitment and Love in Her Dating Relationships

After she completed her treatment Jenny felt that she would be able to drink more responsibly and in moderation. After pondering her situation more completely, however, she decided that she would completely remove herself from all drinking circumstances.

When Jenny arrived at this determination, she found out that her self image increased the more she took control over her life. And as her self image grew, it seemed like she became more friendly and started attending more community events such as Christmas tree lighting ceremonies, flower festivals, carnivals, music festivals, rib roasts, strawberry festivals, and local high school basketball and football games. Jenny also started to foster more commitment and love in her dating relationships.

Jenny Addresses Her Excessive Drinking, Decides To Do Something Productive About It, and Rediscovers Her Faith

As the years went by, the individuals in the community exhibited more consideration for Jenny because she was intermingling with them more often and also because she addressed her hazardous drinking and decided to do something beneficial about it. It may have been her imagination, but it also appeared that her Sunday school students manifested more admiration and respect for her.

Jenny is a living example of a person who had a critical problem and who did something positive about it. She is also a person who discovered that her religious faith is not only something that is intrinsic, but that it is also something that affects the way in which an individual relates to other individuals.

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A Young Woman’s Hazardous and Irresponsible Drinking Results In a DUI, Mental Health Concerns, Depression, Time Incarcerated in Jail, and Relationship, Dating, and Sexuality Issues

Thursday, April 22nd, 2010

Jesse had an exceptionally difficult time keeping a job. In fact, because of her lethargy and lack of incentive, she was unemployed far more often than she was in a state of employment. And when she did find a job, she had an exceptionally difficult time getting to work on time, she typically got less than optimal performance evaluations, and she called off sick so frequently that she almost always got fired a week or two after she began working. To no one’s wonder, one of the consequences of Jesse’s disgraceful employment track record was the fact that she was virtually penniless on a day-to-day basis.

Despite Jesse’s crummy employment history and financial misbehavior, conversely, by hook or by crook she made it a point to drink irresponsibly from day-to-day. Not surprisingly, her abusive and excessive drinking also resulted in dating, sexuality, and relationship issues.

Due to her abusive drinking, it came as no big surprise when Jesse got a fourth DWI. When she went to court, the judge stated to Jesse that her alcohol-related conduct was unacceptable and, as a result, he was going to sentence Jesse to spend twelve months behind bars.

Time In The County Jail To Reflect On The Distressing Results of Irresponsible and Excessive Drinking

During her time in the municipal jail, Jesse was required to learn more about alcohol facts, about the injurious consequences of hazardous and excessive drinking, and she was required to get alcohol rehab. The judge highlighted the fact that unless Jesse receives professional alcohol counseling and discovers how to live a life of sobriety, she will more likely than not be spending a considerable amount of time in the local jail.

Jesse articulated that she comprehended what the magistrate was declaring but she still claimed that placement in the city jail was not the most logical response. The judge saw things from an entirely different perspective and stated that it was his obligation to keep alcoholics off the streets who drink and drive and who get arrested for one or more DUIs. To give credibility to this view, the magistrate articulated some revered, highly researched alcohol statistics that stressed some of the disruptive consequences that are related to irresponsible and hazardous drinking.

Although Jesse realized that she drank in an irresponsible manner, she never thought that she was an alcoholic. So it was quite a surprise when Jesse began experiencing symptoms of alcohol withdrawal approximately seven hours after getting locked up in the local jail.

To treat her alcohol withdrawal symptoms in a safe and sound manner, Jesse was taken to a rehabilitation center for alcohol detox and then brought back to the county jail. While in jail Jesse received a mental health exam for her depression and undertook alcohol treatment but because she received this therapy as something that was mandated for her, she was unsuccessful in taking ownership of her abusive and hazardous drinking.

When her time in the city jail was over, the judge without faltering told Jesse that she would be under strict observation and would be mandated to take random blood alcohol tests.

Jessie’s Excessive Drinking Prevents Her From Living in an Adult and Effective Manner

After hearing how Jesse did not take ownership of her drinking circumstances and how she unenthusiastically followed the therapy policy and procedures while behind bars, the magistrate knew that it was just a matter of time before he would be seeing Jesse once again in court about her abusive drinking behavior. As the magistrate reflected on Jesse’s situation, he couldn’t help but think about how some individuals never use their brain and learn how to live in an effective and adult manner.

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What I Learned About Alcohol and Drug Addiction in High School, the Inspiration and Motivation For My Augmented Self Worth and Self Esteem, and My Enhanced Relationships and Friendships

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

When I was in the tenth grade in high school, I took a substance abuse class. At that time period, I did not comprehend that alcohol abuse actually was a sub category of drug abuse. While taking this class and learning more about drug and alcohol abuse and above all about alcohol side effects, I read a lot about Alcoholic Anonymous, their meetings, how their programs have twelve steps, and how successful the Alcoholics Anonymous recovery program has been for people all through the world. I also learned quite a bit about alcohol rehab and the various alcohol rehab clinics that are usually available to people who engage in excessive drinking.

Detrimental Effects That are Linked to Alcohol Dependency and Alcohol Abuse

Some of the harmful results linked to alcoholism and alcohol abuse that I learned about in this class definitely terrified me. The ruined lives and numerous serious issues experienced by most alcohol dependent individuals made me feel like I never wanted to drink alcohol when I became old enough. In a word, I did not want to face the disaster and destruction that alcohol dependent individuals almost always experience.

Let this sink in for a moment. What fifteen-year-old teenager wants to face premature death due to his or her drinking behavior? What teenager wants to become so out-of-control regarding his or her drinking that consuming alcohol becomes the object of one’s life? What adolescent wants to go to one of the local alcoholic rehabilitation centers to deal with alcohol-related problems before he or she becomes twenty-one?

What teenager wants to go through alcohol withdrawals when he or she tries to quit drinking? Why would an individual engage in drinking to such an extent that it would cause difficulties in every area of his or her life? Drinking later in life after a person has a career, a family, and develops personal responsibilities makes sense. But why would a young person want to sacrifice his or her education, employment, finances, and relationships for a life that centers on irresponsible drinking?

These issues were so important that I discussed some of them in class during the school year. What was downright amazing to me was the number of students who essentially didn’t care about the detrimental consequences of irresponsible drinking that I discussed. It was almost as if they couldn’t be troubled with the facts and how these results can demolish their lives. For the first time in my life I started to understand something that my grandfather used to tell me all through my teen and pre-teen years: you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.

It’s Beneficial, Important, and Liberating to Keep Yourself From the Unhealthy and Debilitating End Results of Drug and Alcohol Abuse

And even at my young age, I also started to comprehend how beneficial, liberating, and important it is in life to keep yourself from the debilitating and unhealthy outcomes of drug and alcohol abuse. Not surprisingly, comprehending this not only led to several problems and conflicts in high school but also led to enhanced friendships and relationships.

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A Young Female Honestly Tries to Stop Drinking, Suffers From Alcohol Withdrawal Symptoms, Uncovers the Fact That She is an Alcohol Dependent Individual, Comes to a Decision to Get Alcohol Therapy, and Enhances Her Friendships and Her Relationships

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

Jennifer is a thirty-three-year-old payroll accountant who has been consuming alcohol quite heavily since her boyfriend and she decided to break off their relationship. In actual fact, for the past eleven months she has been drinking nearly a bottle of wine every night, and on the weekends she also has been drinking several cans of beer all through the day. In short, Jennifer has been drinking so excessively that it’s a miracle that she hasn’t suffered from alcohol poisoning.

After feeling dispirited because she was starting to let her health go downhill, Jennifer at long last told herself that she’s had enough, that it’s time to quit the self pity routine, that it’s time to quit the abusive and hazardous drinking, and time to get going with her life. So the next Saturday morning at 9:00 AM, she determined that she would stop drinking cold turkey.

When She Attempted to Quit Drinking She Felt Dreadful, She Had Absolutely No Appetite, Her Head Was Aching, She Started to Sweat Extensively, She Was Extremely Moody and Restless, and She Vomited a Number of Times

When Jennifer quit drinking, she figured that she would most likely be tempted to have a couple of drinks, but she never assumed that she would feel so ill. More accurately, roughly an hour-and-a-half after she stopped drinking, she had utterly no appetite, she vomited several times, her head was throbbing, she started to perspire extensively, and she was extremely stressed out and moody.

When she called her best friend and informed her that she had stopped drinking and that after a couple of hours she all of a sudden began having flu-like symptoms, Rita, her best buddy, told Jennifer to call her healthcare practitioner and clearly explain what she was experiencing.

She Admits to Her Healthcare Professional That She Has Been Drinking In an Excessive and Irresponsible Manner, That She Just Tried to Quit Drinking, and That She is Suffering Through Terribly Unpleasant Flu-Like Symptoms

So Jennifer called her family doctor, informed him that she has been drinking excessively for quite a few months and that when she made an effort to abruptly quit drinking earlier in the day, within a few hours she felt as if she had the most horrible flu-like symptoms that she had ever experienced.

Her healthcare professional informed her that she may be experiencing symptoms of alcohol withdrawal and that she should have a friend or family member take her to the emergency room as soon as possible.

As soon as Jennifer got off the phone, she got a family member to drive her to the emergency room. Interestingly, all the way to the hospital, as sick as Jennifer felt, the only thing she could think about was whether or not she might be an alcoholic.

It seems that her healthcare professional had called ahead and told the emergency room staff to expect Jennifer because when she got to the hospital, she was met by two nurses who promptly asked her to lie down on the portable bed they had with them. After getting transferred to the emergency room and undergoing two or three basic tests, it was confirmed that Jennifer was in point of fact going through alcohol withdrawal symptoms and was in need of alcohol detoxification.

A healthcare practitioner administered some drugs to address her flu-like symptoms and also gave her some meds to help get rid of the alcohol that was still in her circulation system.

An Alcoholism and Alcohol Abuse Healthcare Professional Goes Over the Fact That She is Addicted to Alcohol and Then Goes Over What Alcohol Withdrawal Symptoms and Alcohol Dependency Stages Are

After a few hours, Jennifer was taken from the emergency room and transported to the recovery room. After she was in recovery for just about an hour-and-a-half, Doctor Jeffries, an alcohol abuse and alcoholism specialist, came to talk to her. He took quite a bit of time and explained in plain words that Jennifer had gone through alcohol withdrawal symptoms when she stopped drinking because she had become an alcoholic.

He then elucidated the fact that with continuous and heavy drinking, the individual’s brain slowly but surely gets acclimated to the alcohol so that it can execute tasks and operations in a “routine” way. When the person then abruptly abstains from consuming alcohol, it can be noted, the brain reacts by giving rise to alcohol withdrawal symptoms. What is more, her physician also clearly explained the different alcoholism stages that a person who is alcohol dependent regularly experiences as the disease gradually gets worse.

It is Established that Jennifer is in the Earliest Stage of Alcohol Dependency and She Gets a Good Prognosis For a Complete Recovery if She Gets the Alcohol Treatment She Requires

Fortunately for Jennifer, it was confirmed that she was in the first stage of alcohol addiction and, as a result, she got a good diagnosis for a full recovery if she receives the alcohol addiction rehabilitation she needs.

Jennifer told the doctor that she will do whatever it takes to get sober and to re-establish her life. She also articulated that she has a first-rate hospitalization insurance policy that will probably pay for most of the treatment costs. It was obvious that Jennifer was very happy with her positive prognosis and felt free from worry knowing that she will be able to get the alcohol dependency rehabilitation she requires so that she can begin the road to recovery. After Jennifer talked to her doctor, one thing was unmistakable: addressing her illness and wanting to pursue the healthiest route was good for her self esteem but it also augmented her relationships and her friendships.

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Hazardous Drinking, an Enabling Wife, Encouragement for Constructive Change and Successful Alcohol Rehab, and an Enhanced Marital Relationship

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

It took more than a few years but Emily at long last made up her mind that she had enough with her husband’s careless drinking. She was fed up from seeing Barry come home after 2:00 AM from drinking rather than spending quality time with her and the children. She was also exhausted from the DUI Barry recently got. Moreover she was fed up from generating reasons for Barry when he couldn’t make it to work on time due to his problems with drinking. In a similar manner she was anxious and depressed about the fact that their relationship was in constant conflict due to Barry’s abusive and careless drinking. And finally she was sick and tired of the precarious financial quandary into which he had placed his family because of his unhealthy and excessive drinking behavior. In a word, Emily felt that her mental health was deteriorating due to her husband’s problem drinking.

When Irresponsible and Excessive Drinking Motivates a Person to do Something Productive About an Individual’s Problem Drinking

One Thursday evening when Emily was reflecting on what she could do about her husband’s excessive and abusive drinking, she got to the point that she frankly had to do something positive to cut into the harmful cycle of Barry’s negative drinking behavior.

So she looked on the Internet under “alcohol treatment” and located scores of treatment centers that were all located less than forty miles away from where she and her husband lived. Because she didn’t know anything about these rehabilitation facilities, she eventually made up her mind that she needed to call some of them and ask a few questions. When she called each rehabilitation facility she introduced herself and articulated that her husband was exhibiting excessive and abusive drinking behavior. She also stated that her husband had an excellent health insurance program at work and that outpatient or inpatient alcohol dependency rehab would be covered if a doctor in the company health program recommended the rehab.

At one rehabilitation clinic, Emily was stunned that she was able to converse directly with a healthcare practitioner who suggested that she come to the treatment center to go over her husband’s hazardous and abusive drinking behavior in much greater detail.

Emily Talks to a Psychologist About Her Husband’s Abusive and Excessive Drinking

When Emily got to the rehabilitation center, she filled out some required forms and then after about ten or fifteen minutes got to see a physician. After listening to Emily talk about her husband’s unhealthy and excessive drinking, the therapist in a caring but resolute way told Emily how she more likely than not played a role in her spouse’s abusive and hazardous drinking through the months and the years by rationalizing his drinking instead of letting him experience the outcomes of his hazardous and excessive drinking behavior.

Emily Learns That She Has Been Enabling Her Husband’s Abusive and Irresponsible Drinking

In a word, the physician told Emily that she may have been inadvertently enabling Barry’s hazardous and careless drinking behavior. The healthcare professional also stressed the fact that while Emily could not control her husband’s actions, with the support and guidance of the treatment team at the healthcare facility she would not only be able to learn how to stop contributing to Barry’s unhealthy and excessive drinking but she could also learn how to help him schedule an appointment at the rehab facility so that he could talk about his abusive and excessive drinking behavior with a healthcare professional.

The good news was that after Emily explained this to her husband, and he saw that she meant business, Barry told her that he had been extremely troubled by his abusive and excessive drinking behavior and that he was quite thankful to discover that Emily wanted to do something affirmative about his careless and excessive drinking behavior. Consequently, he scheduled an appointment to see a psychologist at the local alcohol treatment facility. It almost goes without saying that this bolstered Emily’s self-worth.

Barry Agrees to Meet With a Counselor About His Hazardous and Excessive Drinking

While simply calling a rehab facility does not ensure that a person’s problem drinking behavior will become less problematic or that one’s warning signs of alcoholism or the alcohol abuse signs one displays will simply fade away, making an appointment is obviously a required feature in the treatment process. And since Barry was serious about getting quality assistance for his excessive and unhealthy drinking, the likelihood of a successful recovery was substantially augmented.

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