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How to Pick Up Girls- A Few Simple Tips

Sunday, July 5th, 2009

How to pick up women? That’s a question I don’t care who you are as a man, we have all at some time or another ask ourselves this question and I have the answer. I grew up in a family with four older sisters and when I was a teenager I just sat back and watched what actually worked and what did not work.

The one thing I know for sure is that I have never met a woman that would go out with a guy if he seemed desperate. Women I’ve learned over the years are far less complexes then we think. Men are out there jumping through hoops when a lot of time the simplest approach will do. Let me show you the fast and simplest way to pick up woman, it’s not hard.

If you are going out to pick up woman this weekend start early. Give yourself time to get there and check out the place. First have a drink and pick up the vibe in the club or bar, after that find a woman that interests you and start approaching her. A lo tof guys make the mistake that they are catching the ladies eye and then do not move on, big mistake.

No woman wants to be approached at closing time for a booty call. No, I suggest as soon as you two make eye contact and you think that there might be something there make your move- the early bird gets the worm my friends.

I usually go over and try and make conversation, this is always a good start to pick up a woman. I have noticed that laughter is always a good way to break the ice. I mean you don’t have to be a clown just be relaxed comfortable in your own skin. Try and get her number before last call, you don’t have to rush in to get it, but be sure to get it before the night ends that way if you don’t hook up that night you got on in the bank.

Just remember guys woman are their to meet men, but they are not stupid the worst thing you can do is to come rolling up when the lights come on. First off your looking real desperate by now, and they know you only want on thing and the odds are you‘re not going to get it like that.

However, if you have already met and you come back over things just might turn out a little better as long as you are not acting like you can’t wait to get in her pants. The more comfortable she gets with you the better are your odds, that’S why you can e.g. ask her out for breakfast.

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Basic Strategies On How To Pick Up Women

Saturday, July 4th, 2009

I think you’ll find this article helpful too, if you did, I reckon you’ll want to read this as well: Pick Up Women or Guys Pick Up Girls

The hardest part of trying to pick up women is approaching them. The key to knowing how to pick up women is have a positive attitude. If the approach is wrong, everything else goes wrong and men attach a lot of significance on the first. The truth is, creating the first impression is the easy part but using the impression you have made to make them fall for you is the hard part.

Confidence is the key to a successful pick up. Women can smell fear and if you are scared or unsure, that defeatist attitude would show through. The thing to understand is that all men are genetically tuned to seduce women unless if you are gay and there is nothing to be afraid of.

The main ingredient to the seduction potion is confidence. Women invariably like confident and self assured men. This does not mean that you can walk up to any woman an pass a lewd comment or hope that they take to your offer of your company positively. Learn to be confident in a cultured and sophisticated way.

Being confident is a very attractive quality and women usually prefer confident men who know what they are doing. If your demeanor radiates confidence and you have a good attitude, women will be more likely to respond to your advances and that is the first step you should incorporate in learning how to pick up women.

Learning how to smooth talk women into falling for you or having the gift of the gab is another advantageous quality you can help you learn how to pick up women. A great sense of humor helps as most women like men who can crack a joke and get them laughing. A guy with a funny bone often scores above the charming and sophisticated bloke who would appear grouchy in comparison.

The idea is to infuse a feel good factor and make the women around you comfortable and enjoying themselves. You need not behave like a clown. Women like men with a sense of humor and are not just turned on by a funny guy. If you can be funny and at the same time retain your charming ways and make it seem that your entire focus is on them, then the cat is in the bag.

After entertaining them for some time with your wisecracks and tall tales and having them enjoy your company, the next part in learning how to pick up women is to get their phone number. Do not ask a women for her number off the cuff. Always try to make her give it to you or give her your number instead. There is never a hurry to do this and you have to wait for the right moment when you feel that she is quite impressed with your charming self before you let it happen.

Always let the oven heat up before you put the bun in. Wait for the right moment till they air is charged with amorous attraction and you are confident that the women in whose company you have been wishes to see more of you. Then fake an interruption and make an excuse to leave their company while making it clear you want to see more of them and casually write your number on a piece of paper and give it to them. If would be all done with so fast that they would be sitting there staring at your number and missing all the excitement that they had until then.

A different technique to employ would be to let them know in subtle ways that it is time to leave and you would like to see them again and have the joy of their company. Then wait around for them to figure out if they want to give your number either by paying the bill or by finishing your drink. More often than not you can catch them trying to hurriedly jot down their number on a piece of paper to give to you. Otherwise you could help them out of their confusion by offering your number. Learning how to pick up women is an art as well as a marketing technique. All of us have the qualities to successfully engage in this practice but few of us do it. Most men who are adept at the seduction game would be avoided as being players and have to make sure that they don’t come off as such.

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