Sure, money can help raise your social status and improve your attraction level with the females. The keyword here is “help”… if you’re anything like the way I used to be it was easy to make that an excuse for your lack of success in your dating life. I am going to show you exact methods for attracting women like a powerful and RICH man.
How to Attract Women Using Social Status
What is it about rich and powerful guys that makes them attractive to women?
Money is the simple answer but what if you don’t have truckloads of cash in your life?
The answer is status.
Simply put, women are attracted to men who have high status. Many, I’ll even say most, of people will assume that this means you must be loaded or famous to have high status.
While it is true that being rich or famous is one way to help gain high status, it is not the only way to achieve high status. So if you and I are not rich or famous, what are our options?
There’s a lot more to the concept of high status than merely your bank account. There are a number of different levels of status. Here are a couple different types of status that ANYONE can achieve.
***High Social Status
***Status within specific SITUATIONS
So what do I mean? Sure, having a private island or multiple movies roles will help you have high social status or higher status within a specific situation, what can you do if you don’t have a million dollars or your own TV show?
Think about it here…
What can you do to get higher status?
There are Lots of things you can do. Number one is LEADING the situation.
I can’t stress this enough, don’t ever be the bozo who falls into the scenario of, “What do you want to do tonight?”
“I dunno, what do you wanna do?”
High status means taking charge. High status men are not scared to make a decision and lead the group. It doesn’t mean being a jerk, it means moving things along. If someone brings up a good idea, rally the troops behind it. Be the leader, not the follower.
Don’t be afraid tochange venues and check out several spots within a venue. If I’m hanging out with a woman at a venue, somtimes I’ll simply move to the other side of the room.
“Let’s see what’s going on over here!” It’s as easy as that.
What else can you do?
Always be the man who knows what’s going on. Know about the secrets in your town. Are there cool ghost stories? What’s the best new dessert store? Why is the best? What’s the best bar or nightclub for any given night of the week? Why? What is a fun story about a time you were there? Local gossip or scandals?
What am I getting at here?
You don’t need to be wealthy, good looking, or famous to be in the loop about wherever you live.
Think about this, what’s more attractive?
The bozo who has no clue what to do, what he’s done, or what’s going on?
Or the guy who has several ideas of awesome things to do on any day or night of the week? He also has a story to share about the last time he did it and/or is happy to share his excitement about the next time he’s going.
For example, for any given day or night of the week I like to know what’s going on. Where I live on the first Thursday of every month there is something called The Artwalk downtown. It’s FREE, and there’s tons of stuff going on. Cool art galleries, free wine, and all kinds of killer food vendors.
If I’m talking to a woman and she’s been there, we can share the excitement and stories we have about it. Now, if she’s never been there, I can hype up how fun it is and invite her to scope it out with me.
On Saturdays there is a cool flea market I like to go to in my neighborhood and they serve the best coffee.
On Sundays, there’s a club I like that serves free vodka drinks from 9-10:30.
On Mondays, there’s a restaurant I like that has an incredible happy hour special of drinks for $3 and tacos for $1. It’s a great spot with a busy and fun atmosphere.
There is a local mansion that was turned into a city park that not many people know about. It used to be owened the man that was responsible for bringing electricity to my city. He donated his estate to the city and turned it into a really cool park up in the hills. It’s a really cool place with with awesome views, awesome history and it cost NOTHING.
Barely anyone knows about this place, on the small chance they do, they don’t know the entire story behind it. There was major scandal/murder that happened in the 20’s at this park, point being, it’s always a cool story to share.
These are just a few ,of many, things that happen/are happening in my city and there’s stories attached to every night of the week at every place that I can share anytime.
Things like this are going on no matter where you live. Find out what’s going on, what’s happened, and talk about your experiences there.
A high status man is GIVING VALUE rather than taking value. Now I don’t mean he’s giving out $20 dollar bills to everyone he sees. I mean he gives a rich, engaging, and fun experience with women when he hangs out with them. Women are able to let go and have fun in the moment, no expectations, no lables, and NO PRESSURE. Just a solid, great time.
The brings us to the next rule.
Hype up EVERYTHING.
Everything you do is amazing and everywhere you go is the coolest venue. Status is like exactly laughter and the flu, it’s contagious.
If you laugh, often times other people will laugh too. If you are super excited and having fun because of whatever is happening, it will likely rub off on her too.
It’s an amazing time because you are a HIGH STATUS MAN that is having fun.
Think about this for a moment. Within any situation you find yourself in, ask yourself, “Who has the most status here and why?”
A great simple formula is this. Women are attracted to men who have MORE status then they have.
If she’s the one who’s leading the situation, making all the plans, and everyone is hanging on her every word… . what do you think that means?
It means you are TAKING value and not giving value. It means she has to WORK in order to entertain you. It means she is NOT going to be attracted to you.
Be the man and take charge.
Women love nothing more than getting caught up “in the moment” with a guy. Things “just happen” you’ll often hear as a woman tells a story.
To make things happen, have her get lost in the moment of a high status man… . YOU.
Think about your status and what you’ve learned today. Always ask yourself, “What can I do RIGHT NOW to improve my status?”
Best of luck out there!
Ronaldo Gary
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