Women Pick Up Artists
Sunday, February 5th, 2012You found this site because you are in the same situation the majority of men are in with women. It’s a situation no man wants to be in—the inability to meet and attract confident women. I use to be the guy women were never attracted to, and for me, it was starting to become a big problem that was affecting other areas of my life.
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Men with little confidence are faced with another problem. Women have always found men that are attractive to other women more attractive to them. So, confidence has a compounded effect. Most women just want the best man, not all men. In other words, the more attractive you are to a woman, the more attractive you are to other women.
Not being able to attract women into your life is a vicious circle. Women agree that confidence is the major trait they are attracted to in men. Men with no or little confidence are rarely, if ever, considered attractive to confident women.
Men in an “abundance state of mind” mentality always have a number of women attracted to them at the same time. When a man has more choices he has more confidence and is never desperate or clingy. Women find these qualities attractive, and more importantly, challenging. A man then logically thinks: “Why should I be with you instead of this other woman?” This way of thinking will make women crazy for you! Everyone loves the things they can’t have!
Men in a “scarcity state of mind” get into this position because women don’t find them attractive. A “scarcity state of mind” makes men desperate and willing to do anything to make a woman happy. And a desperate man is a lonely man. Confident women have no us for them. A desperate man is a clingy pushover, and more importantly, not challenging!
The 1973 song called “Some Guys Have All The Luck”, written by the Persuaders, has a logical explanation. It’s the law of attraction spelt out for us in a song. The more women a man can have or has, the more attractive women find him. This is one of the main reasons why some guys have all the “luck” and some guys have all the pain.
But the thing is, all men can attract beautiful women. I know because I use to be unattractive to women. I’ve made it my personal mission, ever since I was a teen. I use to be a total loser with women.
In my younger years I was fit, courteous, friendly, clean, loyal, committed, and just wanted one beautiful woman I could make happy. In a nutshell, I was a nice guy. If there is one thing I’ve learned, women have no interest in nice guys, even goodlooking nice guys. From the time I could remember, the assholes always got the women they desired.
This simple fact glaring me in the face made me angry because my relationships with women were never the way I had envisioned them to be. I was the guy that got the girls I didn’t really want. I never even got a kiss from a girl until I was 17! My real adventures with women began when I started getting into online dating.
The year was 2005. When I first started online dating I blew the bag! I had no idea how to get women interested in my profile. I couldn’t get any responses, not even from unattractive women.
One night I decided to sit down and really put some time and serious thought into writing my online dating profile. After I completed my new and improved profile, I had no idea that I had just created a masterpiece that would change my interaction with women forever.
More women started to apply to my profile than I could handle. I had to put together a spreadsheet to keep track of all the girl’s names and numbers I was getting. This experience really helped me get more comfortable with women simply because I was going on so many dates. And of course I was getting “lucky” here and there too.
My major transformation didn’t happen until a few years later. Before this transformation, I always found myself getting into relationships with woman I knew weren’t right for me. When I turned 36 something changed in the way I looked at women. I realized that there had to be a logical explanation of why there are “those guys” that get all the “luck”.
I was single and living in my new downtown apartment. One night I call up my buddy Brandon. He’s a short jacked stocky dude that reminds me of a pit bull. He smokes like a sailor and is always short of breath because he has respiratory problems. He can be vulgar when he wants to be and always treats women like absolute garbage.
He starts telling me about the 16 different girls he has had sex with in the last month and tells me he’s had sex with over 300 women in his life! What I found even more perplexing was the things he said to these girls to get them back to his place and into bed with him. It was literally outrageous nonsense. He told this one girl a joke he heard in a movie to pick her up. “What has two thumbs and likes blow jobs?” As he points to himself with his two thumbs, “This guy right here!”
Then he tells me it doesn’t even matter what you say. All that mattered was making the woman laugh and giving her some lame reason to come back to your place. I said he should write a book and call it “101 Ways To Get A Woman To Come Home With You On the First Date!” He said that was a great idea and many people told him he should write a book on how to pick up girls. But don’t count on it.
His classic pickup line was when he told this girl he cared for abandoned puppies. The girl of course was turned to mush and he convinced her to come back to his place to see them. They went back to his places and of course there were no puppies, but it didn’t matter. He had her spread eagle on his couch faster than she could say blow job!
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These ridiculous stories got me thinking about women and how their mind’s work. Why can some guys turn women on to the point where their panties fly off like they were on fire? And why are there successful, good looking guys getting no sex from women at all? How were guys like Brandon doing it? I know for a fact Brandon doesn’t fit the typical profile of what women say they want—tall, dark, handsome, established, blah, blah, blah. However, Brandon did have one character trait I knew even the most intelligent women couldn’t resist… He’s a bad boy. Why do women love bad ass men so much?
I started doing searches in Google under “pickup lines” to see what popped up. I started coming across information products created to teach men how to meet and pickup women. So, I bought one. The information was ok, but the guy didn’t really explain why he was doing what he was doing. He just did it because it had always worked for him. Some of his strategies worked, but others didn’t work at all for me. I still felt like there were too many pieces of the puzzle missing. Regardless, I was still gaining more confidence just because I had a few guidelines to follow.
One day I get an email from this guy about a professional dating coach he knows. This dating coach starts emailing me all kinds of tips and tricks on how to attract women. No brainer stuff that’s easy to do but gets amazing results with women.
To make a long story short, after applying some of his techniques, my sex life went to the next level. It started becoming easier to make women attracted to me. Did you get that? I was starting to understand how to MAKE women more attracted to me. I just applied a few simple strategies I had learned.
My state of mind changed, to what he called, the “abundance state of mind. My attitude and state of mind changed towards women. More importantly, my beliefs changed. These days I have several women in my life at a time. Today my relationships with women aren’t anywhere close to how they use to be.
You can change your current relationships with women. You don’t have to be rich. You don’t need an amazing physique. You don’t need to look like a super modle. It doesn’t even matter if you have a job or not. Take it from me. I’m broke, don’t even have a job and drive an old beat up mini-van. But I still have a different woman for every night of the week.
What material objects you posses isn’t as important as most men think they are when it comes to being successful at attracting and seducing beautiful women. My buddy Brandon is in the same predicament as me. We’re both getting close to our 40’s and we’re still not established and have little money. The bottom line is: Confident men get women and wussy men get to go home and jerk off! Women are finding it more difficult to find alpha men in today’s modern world. The woman’s rights movement has played a major roll in this shift that has caused many men to become wussies, but that’s another topic of discussion.
A lot of men think that if they tell a women about all their “stuff” and success that she’ll be impressed. But women just find men like this boring. A woman’s imagination is the most erotic part of her being. Get her imagination going and you can get what you want out of her! That’s why Brandon is so successful with silly stories and jokes. He discovered the hidden switch that most men never find. Women want men to seduce them into getting them to do what you want. And the only way to seduce a woman is through her imagination.
My study of women’s minds started turning more of my dating experiences into sexual experiences more frequently. A few months ago I took this 27 year old cutie I met online out on a date. I tried out a few body language moves I learned and a trick that makes women feel like they’ve been on multiple dates with you. Before I know it I’m at her place in bed with her. As she’s taking off her panties with a guilty look in her eyes she says “You know… You really shouldn’t have sex on the first date.” Then her panties land on the floor!
That night was the moment I started getting better at seducing women. Why would a moment like that mean so much to me? A moment like that means more than just having sex with a young and beautiful 27 year old girl that I just met a few hours ago. It showed me that if I put my mind to it that I could get what I want. By the way, women also find men that get what they want more attractive.
My entire life women were rarely attracted to me. When I was a young teen there was this girl I always wanted, but she only saw me as a friend. Several years passed by and she found me on an online dating website. She invited me over to her place for a drink but she still just wasn’t into me.
Several years later she discovers that I’m friends with a female acquaintance of hers that just so happens to like me. And we already know women just can’t help but be interested in a guy other women are interested in.
By the time this girl had finally some interest in me I had been immersed in all kinds of women seduction guides. And this time when we got together things went according to plan. Understanding a woman’s mind can get you out of the friend zone with her. Even if you’ve known her for years and she’s never been interested in you before.
So do you still think some guys get all the luck? The truth is, luck has nothing to do with it. There’s a method to the female mind of madness. Once you figure this out it’s like learning to swim.
I solved many of my internal personal problems by getting what I wanted out of my relationships with women. I’m happier, more confident, and it has even improved my relationships with friends and family. The only way you’re going to improve your situation with women is to do something about it. So do something about it today! Women will love you for it!
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