Get The Women Of Your Dreams
Friday, May 14th, 2010There are such a lot of books, conventions, and special newsletters out there regarding how to attract women, land the woman of your dreams, and so forth and so on and they all boil down to one main observation: Confidence.
All else being equal, it’s the assured guy that will win every time all else being equal. That suggests you need to groom and dress properly and look after all of the other basics from personal cleanliness to making a good livelihood. The basics will get your foot in the door give you a chance but they are by no means what will seal the deal. That’s why they’re called basics…
But naturally, life isn’t fair it isn’t equal. Folk are not equal. Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses. And confidence goes a long way towards leveling out your weaknesses while highlighting your strengths.
Naturally, confidence itself is a strength. So how it’s possible to get it if you do not have it already?
By practicing. There’s really no other way. You have to unlearn what you’ve learned about yourself, and about your strengths and weaknesses.
No one is born assured. ( If they are , they’re just born lucky. ) But everybody learns some measure of confidence, at some point. You needn’t join the division or Navy or have mystical one-in-a-million experiences ; you simply need to practice through selective confidence-building measures that prime your brain for success.
Easier said than done, naturally but the harder it is to do, the better it will be once done. Accept that.
And, lest it be mistaken, let it be noted now that confidence is not the same as arrogance, which is commonly used to hide fear, insecurity, and doubt. And there is not any faster turn-off than arrogance with most women. So learn confidence to avoid arrogance and you can write your own how-to book in the shape of your extraordinarily life, a life well lived!
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